tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7977525144716414332.post1306451350060666142..comments2009-12-29T16:44:40.916-05:00Comments on jen's love lessons: student love tip: steer clear of contemptJenniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01460731560484397536noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7977525144716414332.post-999762317907403702009-12-29T16:44:40.916-05:002009-12-29T16:44:40.916-05:00One would hope this would be common sense, but unf...One would hope this would be common sense, but unfortunately, that's not always the case. ;-)LiLuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18002691394373545956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7977525144716414332.post-68427562218494254692009-12-29T10:46:08.822-05:002009-12-29T10:46:08.822-05:00I agree with this post a lot. My BF and I tease ea...I agree with this post a lot. My BF and I tease each other a lot, which I like. But once it gets serious and we're really arguing, I sometimes have to stop myself from saying hurtful things I don't mean. It's important not to belittle your partner or make them feel worthless.Jillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00103197130284239823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7977525144716414332.post-88929346277847669442009-12-29T08:04:34.624-05:002009-12-29T08:04:34.624-05:00granted i am not in school for counseling so i hav...granted i am not in school for counseling so i have little expertise, however, i have found that this helps immensely! every now and then my fiance and i sit down and have a kind of "what's your beef" discussion where we talk about things the other person is doing that's bothering us. many times it's roommate issues and we laugh about it. like "i swear if i have to pick up one of your gross socks one more time..." and we giggle. sometimes it's "oh hai let's try crazier things in bed" other times it's more serious. regardless it helps communication and avoid the possibility of us stewing about things.laurahttp://stitchingmystressaway.com/blognoreply@blogger.com