<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7977525144716414332.post8177024078556259091..comments</id><updated>2011-08-03T21:06:48.138-04:00</updated><category term='love issues'/><category term='love lesson giveaways'/><category term='student love tips'/><category term='just for the love of it'/><category term='trust'/><category term='self-disclosure'/><category term='wise love words'/><category term='photo love'/><category term='relationship resolutions'/><category term='media love'/><category term='parenting'/><category term='similarity'/><category term='communication'/><category term='positivity'/><category term='perspective-taking'/><category term='hus stories'/><category term='listening'/><category term='conflict'/><category term='books i love'/><category term='laughter'/><category term='supportiveness'/><category term='intimacy'/><category term='sex'/><category term='commitment'/><category term='relationship dissolution'/><category term='love tips'/><category term='love style'/><category term='attachment theory'/><category term='giveaway winners'/><category term='surveys'/><category term='flirting'/><category term='relationship initiation'/><category term='keeping things interesting'/><category term='student love lessons'/><category term='cartoon love'/><category term='relationship maintenance'/><category term='what i&apos;ve learned'/><title type='text'>Comments on jen's love lessons: wise love words: flirting over 50</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.jenslovelessons.com/feeds/8177024078556259091/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7977525144716414332/8177024078556259091/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.jenslovelessons.com/2009/01/wise-love-words-flirting-over-50.html'/><author><name>Jennie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01460731560484397536</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_Q3Yza5FG644/SszuDCVpMsI/AAAAAAAAC7A/1I1eTinO0IA/S220/LoveLessonbutton.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7977525144716414332.post-2194114113810301537</id><published>2011-08-03T21:06:48.138-04:00</published><updated>2011-08-03T21:06:48.138-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I agree. I&amp;#39;m 50 and I can&amp;#39;t even respond i...</title><content type='html'>I agree. I&amp;#39;m 50 and I can&amp;#39;t even respond if (I think) a man may be flirting with me. What if I were wrong? The shame!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7977525144716414332/8177024078556259091/comments/default/2194114113810301537'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7977525144716414332/8177024078556259091/comments/default/2194114113810301537'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.jenslovelessons.com/2009/01/wise-love-words-flirting-over-50.html?showComment=1312420008138#c2194114113810301537' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.jenslovelessons.com/2009/01/wise-love-words-flirting-over-50.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7977525144716414332.post-8177024078556259091' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7977525144716414332/posts/default/8177024078556259091' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1445467592'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7977525144716414332.post-8930923099983780536</id><published>2009-03-23T10:51:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-23T10:51:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I read the MSN article and I have to say, I can't ...</title><content type='html'>I read the MSN article and I have to say, I can't see myself doing any of this.  Like many women in my age bracket (I'm 52), I'm fat, wrinkly, and ugly, and I would feel just ridiculous with any of these behaviors. Yes, they are subtler than the things you described as being more appropriate for 20-somethings, but they still seem pretty obvious to me.  Men of any age, ironically regardless of their own attractiveness quotient, seem to judge by appearances and just sneer at women who don't meet their (usually unrealistic) standards. It only takes a few of these blatant putdowns before any kind of flirting becomes the equivalent of wearing a "kick me" sign. I would enjoy some male companionship, but not if the price is my dignity or self-esteem.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7977525144716414332/8177024078556259091/comments/default/8930923099983780536'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7977525144716414332/8177024078556259091/comments/default/8930923099983780536'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.jenslovelessons.com/2009/01/wise-love-words-flirting-over-50.html?showComment=1237819860000#c8930923099983780536' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.jenslovelessons.com/2009/01/wise-love-words-flirting-over-50.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7977525144716414332.post-8177024078556259091' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/7977525144716414332/posts/default/8177024078556259091' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-901504605'/></entry></feed>
